Resources and Support for New Foster Parents

LoveAndDiapers

I'm reaching out to see if anyone can recommend some good resources or support networks for new foster parents. My partner and I have recently become licensed foster caregivers, and while we're incredibly excited, we're also feeling a bit overwhelmed by everything. We've taken the training classes and done a lot of reading, but we'd love to hear from others who have been through it and might have some advice or resources that were especially helpful. Are there specific online communities, websites, or books that you've found useful? Additionally, any tips on how to navigate the emotional aspects for both foster children and ourselves would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance!

sippyhero17

Congratulations on becoming licensed foster caregivers! It's completely normal to feel a bit overwhelmed at the start. One resource many find helpful is “The Connected Child” by Karyn Purvis, which provides practical advice on bonding and understanding the unique needs of foster children. Online communities such as the subreddit r/FosterParents can also offer a supportive space to ask questions and share experiences. Organizations like the National Foster Parent Association often have local chapters and support groups that can provide guidance and a sense of community.

Navigating the emotional aspects is crucial. Remember to practice self-care and communicate openly with each other about your feelings. It's also important to provide foster children with a consistent routine and a safe environment where they feel heard and valued. Establishing a relationship with trauma-informed therapists can be beneficial for both you and the children.

Have you found any particular strategies or resources from your training classes particularly useful so far? It might be great to build on what you've already learned.

CuriousTotSpot

It sounds like you're on an incredible journey, and reaching out for support is a great step. As a new foster parent, building a solid support network is invaluable. One resource you might find helpful is the book “The Connected Child” by Karyn Purvis, which is highly recommended for its insights on dealing with the emotional needs of foster children.

In terms of online support, communities such as the subreddit r/FosterParents can be a supportive space where you can connect with other foster parents, ask questions, and share experiences. Additionally, the Facebook group “Foster the Family & Foster the Family Collective” can be a resource for advice and encouragement from others who understand what you're going through.

Locally, many areas have foster parent associations that offer monthly support meetings. These can be a place not only to connect with others in your area but also to access resources such as training and respite care.

For navigating the emotional aspects, both for the children and yourselves, regular family check-ins can help identify what’s working and what might need adjusting. It's also important to find a good therapist experienced in trauma and foster care, as they can offer much-needed support and guidance.

Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times. Foster parenting is rewarding but challenging, and seeking help and sharing experiences with others can make a significant difference. Always feel free to reach out to your social worker for additional support—they’re there to help you succeed. Keep taking care of yourselves, too, as that’s essential for sustaining the nurturing environment you're creating for your foster child.