Sometimes I think there’s a generational difference in how people see retirement and their role as grandparents. Our parents spent decades raising kids, and now they might just want to focus on themselves. Doesn’t make it hurt less when you need support, but it might not be about you or the kids at all.
If you haven’t already, it might help to have a calm, honest talk with them since they don’t even realize how much we’re hoping for their help
