My son’s buddy showed up right when the taco bar was ready and I had to decide on the spot whether to pull out one more plate or send him home first. The quick list in my head was portion sizes for everyone, if this counts as a meal or just hanging out, and whether their parents expect a call before food gets involved, but none of it lined up without any warning. Not sure if the default move changes when it’s a full dinner spread versus snacks.
